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Check each of the following that apply to you
- Have you purchased or rented pornography
magazines or videos, or paid for telephone sex?
- Are you preoccupied with sexual thoughts?
- Have you viewed adult movies on cable TV at home
or in hotel rooms when traveling?
- Have you been involved with pornography or
sexual/romantic chat rooms on the Internet?
- Do you "channel surf" on TV looking for
visual sexual stimuli?
- Do you often stare at women in public and
fantasize sexually about them?
- If married, have you had an emotional or physical
affair with someone other than your wife?
- Have you been accused of flirtatious behavior by
your wife or significant other?
- Do you regularly use pornography or sexual
fantasizing about women other than your wife as an aid to masturbation?
- Have you had sex with prostitute or visited a
massage parlor for a sexual massage?
- Have you visited a strip club or "peep
show"?
- Have you ever been involved in voyeuristic (ie
"peeping Tom) behaviors?
- Has your sexual activity put you at risk of
disease, arrest, or loss of marriage or job?
- Have you ever felt guilty or depressed following
your sexual activity?
- Have you tried to stop your sexual activity but
could not?
- Do you try to avoid social engagements, or seek
to leave them early in order to have more time for your sexual
activity?
- Have your sexual behaviors taken time and energy
away from your marriage and family?
- have you sought to keep sexual activity hidden
from family, friends or coworkers?
- Have you lied to your wife or close friends about
your sexual activity?
- Do you regularly violate your own moral standards
in carrying out your sexual behaviors?
- Has your sexual activity created estrangement in
your relationship with God?
Interpretation:
"Yes" on 1-4 questions indicates you may have a problem and
should immediately talk with a trusted friend or pastor about this area of
your life. More than 4 positive answers is an indication of a
serious problem. You should immediately seek the help of Christian
counselor or Christ-centered recovery ministry specializing in sexual
addiction recovery.
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